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thanks annie xx

can someone tell me what it will be like to have 1 week of chemo through a drip and radiotherapy then 4 weeks of radiotherapy every day then another week of both, its not a lot of chemo , anyone any idea please.

Im aware there are different amounts just a rough idea please xx

Puss,

Hope your dad will be ok and that the treatment will be successful.

Lynne, don't push yourself to be stronger by the day. It is ok to grieve. Cry as much as you like, I do, I feel like I cry all the time. Hope you found a lovely poem. Sorry I didn't see your message earlier I would've loved to have helped.

Annie
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sorry lynne its the fi9rst time ive logged on here today hope you found one, its such a hard time for you atm im not surprised at how your feeling, just keep telling your self your darling mum is in a pain free world now xxx

Just had some unexpected news, we went to see a consultant or so we thought last week re dads future treatment we didnt expect any as he was told it was a curartive operation, but then it was found it had spread to the lymph node, so the consultant said he would start dad on radiotherapy as a precaution so we left ok with that decision today they saw the oncollogist thinking it would be to explain to mum and dad how his treatment would be and where.
dad has to have 6 lots of chemo and radiotherapy in the queen elizabeth so that is the next step

Thank you all for your replies.

I thought I would be getting stronger by the day but still find myself crying.

I wonder if anyone knows a poem or a website I could look on for the local newspaper I have found one from me but I m so tired and cant find one from my children to their Nan, just a short verse, I need by 3pm today. I hope this makes sense I have a job at the moment remembering my own name.

Thank you all
Lynne xxx

Pollypoppet and Lynne, my thoughts are with you both.

Puss, hopefully everything will be ok when you go back for your checkup.

I have a checkup on 16 July at the colposcopy clinic as they are monitoring me cos of several abnormal smears and last year when I went there was some cell changes so going back again for a biopsy. Even with all the numbing stuff they sprayed on me it still hurt. Hopefully everything will be ok and if it has changed again they are going to get a telling off from me, I don't like that I have had to wait 12 mths. I should have been put on 3 or 6 mthly visits.

How is everyone?

Cold and rainy here in NZ this morning. Wish I was at home with the fire on rather than at work : -)

H ello good news im sure, she says i have lots of noduels which are nothing to worry about , she couldnt find the little lump that was very mobile she wants to see me in 2 weeks to see if its hormonal changes which im sure it is and said she will keep an eye on things in the next few months but she feels that there is nothing to worry about.

thankyou all for caring, you know when i found the lump it didnt worry im prone to cysts but on the way there i was terrified i was having to controll my breathing lol, i realise im very lucky xxxxx

Puss

Hope all is well???


sylvia
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Puss, how did you get on at the Doctors today? Am rooting for you.

Hi Lynne, sorry to hear you have lost your mum
May she rest in peace, take care
sylvia x

Lynne


I am so sorry to hear that your mum has died.


She is at peace, and in no more pain

RIP
xxx



Remember her as she was, as the loving mother ................ and please take care of yourself.


The next few days and weeks are also going to be hard as you deal with her funeral and other aspects, so you need to be well and healthy.




sylvia
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Lynne, my condolences on your loss. Give yourself a break from worry now, she is at peace.

Lynne
I am so sorry to hear your Mum has passed away
My condolences to you and your family at such a sad time
PP xxxx

Dear lynne as said she is at peace and out of pain and with your dad it must of been so horrendous for you , please take care of your self now because that is what she would want you have suffered enough remember her for the beautiful person she is all my love and thoughts to you and your family and again if you want to chat about her life here feel free too xxxxxxlove lorraine xx

Lynne, I am so sorry to hear your news, but as you said, she is with your dad now, and no more pain and suffering. My sincere condolences at your loss. It is so hard to watch someone suffer so much, and even harder when they are no longer here. She is at peace.

Love and ((((hugs)))))


Daff xxxxx

I wrote on here a while ago about my mums fight with bowel cancer, she sadly passed away 2.30 this morning, its been the most heartbreaking few months of my life. Shes reunited with my Dad now.

I love you mam no more pain and suffering God bless you.

Your loving daughter Lynne xxx

If you want to pollypoppet you could tell us all about her and the funny things she did, im sure she wont mind, and only if you feel up to it well im off to bed now, good night and i hope you have a good sleep xx

Hi Lorraine & SylviaInCanada
Thankyou both
Your kind words are a comfort and your right she will be free and in no more pain and with her loved ones
I will always remember her as the funny lovely person she was
PP xxxxxx

Hi PollyP


she will have a peaceful passing ..... OH's aunt was in a hospice with brain cancer many years ago, and she had wonderful treatment.


Remember her as she was


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God bless your aunt pollypoppet, she will be free from pain and in a beautiful place with loved ones, thinking off you at this time polly you know where we are if you want to chat about her past and presentxxxxx love lorraine xxxx