General Chat

Jude, some people cannot handle illness in their parents. Glad to hear your cousin is improving.

Thanks folks:o)))

His son has'nt been going to see him as much lately, needs a good talking too!!

jude:o) x

Wishing him well Jude, lovely that he phoned you.

ann
Glos

Bless him, what a brave chap Jude, bet you were too choked to say much lol

Wishing him to feel better and better as the days pass.

Lizx

Oh Jude I'm sure that was a lovely surprise to hear his voice on the phone.
I sincerely hope that he will he will improve a bit each day, and that he will be back to his old self before too long. Please give him my get well wishes when you speak to him. Hope his son is feeling less worried about his dad, and that he is alright.
Speak soon.

Best wishes,

Sallie.x

Hello everyone:o))

Thought you would like to know that l have just had a phone call from my cousin:o))) he still has a tube in his throat so it was difficult to talk and wires everywhere, he was very emotional too.....so good to talk to him though:o))))

jude :o)))) xxxx

Jude, that news must have been very welcome, let's hope things continue to improve for your cousin.

Lizx

sending boro love and get well wishes xxx

So pleased for him and you Jude, hoping he continues to improve.

Ann xx

Hello Jude,
Wonderful news! I'm so pleased for his son too, he must be thrilled,
As you say your cousin is going to need a lot of time to get better -- you know the saying, ' slowly but surely '. That's the best way.
Sending him Get Well wishes. Thinking of your cousin and all the family.

Best wishes,

Sallie.x

That is good news Jude. Pays to have GR behind you, or on your side!

Hi Dutch.............was'nt long after you phoned that l got the call, fantastic news is'nt it :o)) thanks for your call too:o))

Thanks Mary in Spain:o))
love
jude xxxx

Jude im glad your cousin is going to be ok and glad hes making steady progress
Love Dutchxx

Fantastic news
Love Mary xx

My cousins neighbour saw him this afternoon and this is her report:o)))

R was sitting in a chair, one of those that can move about, he has physio 2 or 3 times a day, she could understand everything he said and he understood her:o)) A Dr came over and asked who she was and then told her that he had finally" turned the corner", they don't intend operating agaim he just needs loads and loads of time etc to get better. The last 24hrs had been the turning point.
He's still wired to all sorts of monitors, stitches still healing etc
Well how about that, he must be a tough and determined man:o)))

Thank you all once again for all your support, positive thoughts best wishes etc:o))

Jude :o) xx

Morning:o)) each day is so different is'nt it....when l rang hospital this morning he was sitting on side of bed having physio....l would imagine he was supported but never the less SITTING ON THE SIDE OF BED is fabtastic:o))
He's having a scan this morning aswell, no operations planned unless the scan shows something. His speech detiriated yesterday that what makes then think it could be a stroke. His son did'nt get back to me, but there are other issues there and l know he has alot to deal with.
A neighbour is visiting him today and willget back to me. l've made another offer of going to Sussex but l keep getting told there is nothing l can do, plus l'm not sure where l will stay this time!!

Will keep you updated.

Liz.....l think there is alot that has gone very wrong with the original operation on his hernia, its possible they perferated the bowel, plus the mesh from the hernia stuck to t!! He was actually bringing up what the bowel should have passed, and his stomach has been drained so many times, then a tube into the stomach to drain off........l think they will definately start an enquiry!!!!

jude:o)) ur parcel should be there now:o))
xxxx

Just popped in to say your cousin, and his family, are still in my thoughts and prayers......... you too, you'll be worn to a frazzle. It is so worrying, isn't it?

Love and ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Daff xxxxx

Just catching up Jude, and sorry to hear the latest update on your cousin.

Still sending positive thoughts

xx

I'm so sorry to hear the latest news on your cousin,

Thinking about him and hoping that he will improve.

Best wishes to you all.

Sallie.x

Hi Jude, what a worry for everyone and how awful for your cousin, to have to go through all this because of errors, hope someone can sue the hospital for him, but mostly I hope he can find the strength to get through all that's coming at him, and his son stay strong too.

Lizx