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Thanks Ann.....x

Just looking in to see if there is any more news.... not that there would be until later today.... the dr's would probably have to do their rounds, etc etc... I'll look back in later.

Love and Positive thoughts for your DiL's dad... and her and her mum, too.

Love

Daff xxxx

stay positive thats all you can do. I am sending tons of kind wishes and thoughts and say that my stroke that I had in April was a bleed and I am doing well and I would say to those sceptics who think its wrong to ask for sympathy discuss things like this on chat I have really appreciated support from some people on here. It is very isolating having a stroke and finding out that I could type with one hand was the best medicine in the world. I cant do a lot just yet but to join in and chat with people is a tonic. Positive thoughts get you through. I hope your dad comes round soon. love him and be there

Still sending positive thoughts and prayers - hope the news will be better today.
Love Mary xx

Ann,

So very sorry to hear the latest update.

Sending positive thoughts and prayers to all the family.

Lindy xx

Just looking in to see if there was any news.

Thinking of your daughter-in-law, son and their family!

Hope you are alright Ann.

Best wishes,

Sallie.

Yes Sallie i am fine, no more news though, just a case of waiting I guess.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, You are now on my one minute a day of positive thinking for anyone who needs it.

Bless you all

Bridget

Dear Ann - I didn't log on yesterday so I have only just seen this thread.

Our thoughts are with you and your family. Keep thinking positively.


Wendy & M. xxxx

thanks Bridget and Wendy & M, still no further news.

OH has just been talking to DiL on the phone. Her Dad is still heavily sedated, every time they try to reduce the sedation he reacts against it. They have done a tracheotomy so that he doesn't have to wear a mask all the time and seems to be a bit better for that. He is still on a ventilator but his brain is triggering the ventilator, the bleed was in the back of the brain. the neurosurgeon wont consider operating for 14 - 21 days. according to medical staff there are some positive signs but a lot of negative ones. DiL says that friends are now rallying round and one has offered to stay with her Mum to allow her to get home to see the children and for little one's 7th birthday, then she will go back up again.

Ann x

well, he'll be more comfy with the trachy... and how wonderful of the friends to stay with her mum while DiL pops home for your G'daughters birthday,

Like you said, there are some positive signs.. positive thoughts still with him, and everyone who loves him.

Love

Daff xxxx

thank you Daff, J is so missing the children especially S, T said she was near tears on the phone.

Hope that he keeps on improving.Seems as though they are doing all they can in the hospital.
Take care.

Brenda x

My thoughts are with him and his family.
My sister who lives in Canada had a massive brain bleed in April,collapsed in a Restaurant and they found she had had a brain aneurysm, Short story is after a brain op and then another Op to put balloons in two blocked arteries in her neck she came home after being in Hospital for over two months AND has now gone back to work .She is 60 this September SO things can get better ,
Best of luck to your daughters FIL
Shirley

Loving thoughts & prayers to your DIL's father - and to her and all the family.

Steph xxx

There are support groups online Ann if your DIL needs to talk to somebody

Poor chap to have to go through so much and how hard for your d.i.l. to have to try and juggle supporting her parents, with a young family too. I do hope things improve and will be thinking lots of positive thoughts for them all.

Lizx


thanks Sally.

Just sending more positive thoughts, Ann. One hurdle over - let's hope the rest is as helpful.

Stilll thinking of your DIL¡s father and all the family
Love Mary xx