General Chat

Just to let you know, we're still thinking of you Jan.
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I don't know you, Jan, but I do feel for you and second everything that so many others have said on this thread.

Meri. xxx

Just to nudge this up for Jan to show that we are all here for you, and are worried for you. I do hope you have gone to your Dr. BCXX

We've not spoke before Jan but hope you are ok this morning and that you have considered taking some of the advice given regarding seeing you gp.

We all have blue days some more than others but this seems more than that love, I just wish I was near you so I could come over and give you some support even if it was to make you a cuppa to have 5 mins to yourself.

If you are reading this thread please let us all know how you are love, cause we are all concerned about you.

(((((((loving hugs))))))))

I am not qualified to give you the advice you need but l would love to see you post on here to say you have made a appointment with your doctor, nothing wrong with feeling down we all feel like that at times, the only thing l can do is give you a {{{{{{hug}}}}}}.

Jan ,please listen to advice and seek help from your GP
Im sure they will help you
Its not uncommon after you have a baby to feel this way
Keeping everything crossed for you
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fingers crossed that things get better hun xxxx

If you have recently had a baby, then I can see the same symptoms I have seen in a few others - all of whom became worse before they got better. It is not necessarily post-natal depression, but could be, or be akin to it.

I urge you to go see your doctor - tell him/her how you feel and get it treated NOW. The longer you leave it, the worse it will get, believe me. You MUST get treatment. It is quite a common condition, but it MUST be TREATED. Your family situation can only be blamed for so much of it - but not all. Please go and see the doc.

Jan please listen to Tania - she knows what she's talking about and gives very sound advice.

Sue xx

There is life at the end of the tunnel, Jan, you just can't see it yet. Hang on in there until you see it. No matter what they say your sons love and need you so fight through everything for them and for yourself.

Mair
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Hi Jan
You have just had a baby havnt you,there are many hormonal changes that cause the plunge in confidence you are feeling in your family and your relationship,please see your GP immediately.
have him or her check your thyroid also as it can create a condition that also looks very much like postnatal depression

Today isn't any better, my eldest wants a new mum. Maybe his dad will get him one

I hope that today, Jan, things look a bit brighter for you. BCXX

I think some of us feel like a waste of space at times Jan, but I know it isn't true.......we all have something to give, and I am sure you have too....

I don't know why, but reading your post the film 'Its a Wonderful Life' came into my head.........if he had not been there, the lives of others would have been changed for the worst........OK it was only a film........but it is so popular, and the reason for that is, because it has a message for us all.....

You are needed, you are wanted.... I don't know what else I can say that would be of any use to make you feel better.......I do not have the power......just the wish that I could take away your pain.....

x sally

Jan take a step back ,,,,,,,,You are a great mum all kids call their parents out, but ask them what they would do with out their Mum and the main answer is Lost or dunno.

Jan please talk to me or someone on here, i am really worried about you.

You are a wonderful Mum and have two beautiful little boys who need and adore you.

Do as Sue says speak to your doctor please.xxxx

I agree with Sue, you may feel that way but I'm sure your children wouldn't agree.

pmd you hun xxxxxxx

No it wouldn't hon.

No one is perfect........but one thing you would be is loved unconditionally by your children even if they don't always show it.

You can only love them and do your best xx

Jan you need to see someone - your GP perhaps - and tell them exactly what you're telling us. Your kids wouldn't be better off without you 'cos they love you and I bet they're not the only ones.

Sue xx