General Chat

Hello Hazel

Just looking in to see how you are, and if there is any news, please don't worry about answering, will keep looking in.

Take care

Barbara xxx

Thinking of you and your mum.

Take care
((((HUGS)))) for you.

jude xx

So sorry for you and your poor mum.
I'm thinking of you and send you love and healing and positive thoughts.
Jane. x
PS. her mum will be with her comforting her.

Hello Hazel
Just wanted to come on and say hope mum is comfortable and sending both of you gentle hugs
Mau (xx)

Hi hazel I've been away so have just seen this, just wanted to send you my best wishes and hope you're Mum is comfortable, and paeceful.

Take care of yourself Hazel and stay strong.

Barbara xx

And, as usual, ((((((hugs)))))) from me.

Thanks, Hazel. Mum very weak.

LW

Hi Hazel just sending you a((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))

Love to you and your mum

Hazel

Morning everyone and thanks for your regular enquiries and PMs.

I HAVE to go to the Dentish this moirning :-((( so have phoned the Ward. The Charge Nurse said she had a restful night. No change, just in limbo; no better, no worse!

Your support means so much, especially when so many of you have distressing things occuring in your own lives.

Love Hazel x

Hi Hazel
Was just wondering how your Mum and yourself are

A big Hug to you both for today

Regards
Jackie

Stay strong Hazel, we are all behind you and here for you if you need us.

Lizxx

Hope your mum has a peaceful passing.

Thinking of you both, and sending positive thoughts and gentle {{{hugs}}}


xx

Thinking of you and your mum.

Send big(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))for you both

Hazel

Hi Hazel, looking in to see how your mum is.

Been thinking about you both, Hazel, and hope your Mum is comfortable and peaceful now and you are coming to terms with the way things are going.
Lizxx

hi LW
sorry to hear this about your mam
im sending you hugs, cos you must need it ,
its hard watching this suffereing,

your poor mam i hope her mam answers her calls and visits her in her dreams to reasure her,
i nursed elderly ladys like this in a nursing home and they too called their mum,
one in particular, she had beautiful painting by her bed, some staff told me it was of her when she was young,
shed scratched at it with her nails, but would call out mam, i would drive home at night in tears for her,

i send you love
and to your mam too
julie

Hello Hazel,

Thinking of you, hoping it's not too much longer for you both.We had the same thing with my Dad,the caring staff at the nursing home had him in bed,with his favourite music playing softly.

It is so hard waiting,but at least when she does go,she will be in a better place,and no more pain.She will be free to be with her Mum.

My thoughts are with you,Hazel.

Love from Margot xx

My friend at work has a 92 yr old MIL with dementia. My friend loves her so much. MIL fell on Christmas eve and was taken to hospital where after a few days was given a laxative, as she hadn't been . MIL would forget why she had pressed for a nurse even if she remembered why she had a button to press. Trying to get to the loo she fell and broke a bone in her leg and her spine. No sides were in use on her bed this day. Hospital policy to not use, as people are getting stuck in them. MIL is asking why her parents have not been to see her. If she has a job, and does she have a boyfriend? Latest she lifted her nightie to show her babies! Sister sugested the family give her a teddy or other soft toy. I know from listening to my friend how upsetting all this is for everyone.
Hazel, words can not say how I feel for you xxx

I am thinking of you too.

Love
Sue
x

I have just read the last few pages Hazel and wish you and your lovely Mum peace,I send you arms around you and love as you go through an experience none of us want but all of us will suffer,


With love

Caz xxxxx