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My deepest sympathy Pat
Mau (xxxx)

I, too, am sorry to hear of your loss. I am sure there are many peeps on this site that can give you help and support. God Bless you and your family.
Love Mary xx

I am so sorry to hear of your pain Pat.

I am thinking of you and your family and you have my very best wishes.

With love
Sue

Patricia,

why did you think you shouldn't post this on here? I'm so glad you did, and see what a response you've had.

You sound like a very loving mum and grandma. My mum lost her only son, Stephen in 1963, 7 days before his 3rd birthday. (I wish she could have talked to someone about it but at the time she couldn't/didn't.) There's no good time to lose a child, and they'll always be your baby.

The pain must be so so difficult to bear. I'm sure that Wendy will still be with you and will know that you love her and are keeping her boys safe and cared for.

I don't know what to say really, but I know we will be here for you and will do all we can (maybe only listening will be a help) to make such a difficult time a tiny bit more bearable.

Much love from

Maria xxx

oh pat luv, i cried when i read this post,no -one can really-fully understand the pain your heart is suffering,lot's of luv and hug's to you and your family.
god bless,

gwen xx

You are not burdening us at all Pat ,just keep talking ,telling us about Wendy.We are all hear to listen.
Love helenx

Sending lots of love and hugs to you.

Dianne xx

Thanks, you have no idea how much support you have given me, I am so glad I posted my grief, I knew you wouldn't let me down.

Wendy was born (at home) just off the Old Kent Road in S.E.London. She was chuffed that the boxer Henry Cooper 'Chucked her Cheeks' outside the training pub 'The Thomas a Becketett' at the top of our road. She really was a darling and I loved her so much.

It's not fair you know, I have always smoked too much and drunk too much whisky, it should have been me. I feel so guilty. She was the youngest of my three children and my boys spoilt her something awful when she was young. She had the most beautiful nature and was really a lovely person. I don't know how to accept it.

Toby and Ben are staying with their step-dad until end on term and then they will go to their natural father in London and Archie will stay with his dad in Stafford. It does mean that we will see more of Toby and Ben and they love coming to our house bec ause they like my Nintendo and playing board games with Grandad. Between us all, we will keep this family together, we are all strong but how on earth do you accept losing a precious part of it.

I loved my baby so much and she loved me.

I feel a little bit guilty about burdening you all with all this I had nowhere else to go. Thankyou for all your help and suppiort,

All your family have suffered a devastating loss and I can only say a heartfelt sorry, inadequate though it is. I will pray for you all and light a candle for you and Wendy in church on Sunday. You will need every bit of your strength for the boys.

Bless you, Patricia, in this your worst of times xxx

So sorry Pat, your pain must be hard to bare.

My thoughts are with you and your family, give your grandsons a big hug, your lovely daughter lives on, in them.

Love and many hugs.

Libby xx

Pat, it says a lot about the sort of person Wendy was judging by how much she is loved and missed.
She's gone to a better place now, I like to think. As has been said, concentrate on your boys now! (Grandchildren).
(((HUGS)))
x

So sorry to hear of your loss Pat. I can't say that I know what you are going through, but as a mother myself, I can imagine.

Glad that you posted on here and hope that it helped. Feel free to keep posting, because there will always be a friendly ear for you on here.

Thinking of you and your family.

Maggy xx

So sorry for your loss Pat, I am thinking of you and your family.

Marilyn x

the hardest thing is to lose your child god bless and comfort you and the family in this sad time .....xxx

Pat, my love and prayers go out to you and your family,we are always here to listen, and support you,
Please dont be a stranger.

Love Jean x

Pat so sorry to hear your sad news but you have picked the perfect board to put this on eveyone is so understanding no matter what your prolem they listen and all stand beside you at every turn and will not judge one !!sending love to you and those poor little ones ,..Jean

Oh Pat!
what can I say to you but send you a ((hug)), your pain must be great,I can only Imagine how you feel.
xxxx

oh, i just don't know what to say

god bless and comfort all of you...xxx

Pat, Wendy's boys are the thing to focus on. Keep yourself busy by compiling a family history with lots of memories of Wendy and everything you can find about her ancestors. Do it for the lads, they need to know who their mum was and where she came from and you need to focus on something for her. To Wendy with love from all of us ancestor collectors
John

What a terrible, terrible time for you all.

To lose a child whatever age must be devastating.

Thinking of you all


(((Hugs))) Linda xx