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Abuse in Care Homes This is now for everyone huns

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ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 13 May 2008 20:51

At moment I feel like little girl who was neglected and abandoned whilst my baby bro cried in his cot and I couldn't rescue him. I had to protect him until he grew up cos I was his big sis and

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 13 May 2008 21:03

Thank you, all probs real, not just mine.

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief Report 13 May 2008 21:05

As Sue say's, shani stay strong! We are all here for you mate. xxxx

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 13 May 2008 21:08

Don't wanna spoil happy mood on boards, had such fun last night. Lol, wish I had a bacardi and coke (only one), nearest I've got is water.

((((hugs little sis)))) x



AnninGlos

AnninGlos Report 13 May 2008 21:43

Shani, Don't worry about spoiling the mood on the boards, your friends are here to give you support and comfort. I am so sorry to hear about your brother.

(((hugs)))

Ann
glos

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief Report 13 May 2008 21:55

hey mate you wont spoil anything. wer'e here to help
and would love to put a smile on yer face.
will even give you your spotty parosol back. xxxxxx

Sally Moonchild

Sally Moonchild Report 13 May 2008 22:00

(((((((hugs)))))))).....so sorry.....x sally

jgee

jgee Report 13 May 2008 22:03

SS, sending you special thoughts, so sorry for your brother stay strong and take care,bless you xx

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief Report 13 May 2008 22:05

You see mate!! we are all rooting for you. xx

just need doc and malc now lol

Mrs.  Blue Eyes

Mrs. Blue Eyes Report 13 May 2008 22:06

sorry to hear that hun ((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) as said before you're not putting a downer on here, we're all here for you.

xx Steph

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 13 May 2008 23:09

Okay, back and stronger than ever! Always go down, always bounce back!

Just spent time with sis-in-law composing letter which I've typed, emailed stating quite categorically that under NO circumstances should my bro be interviewed, spoken to or approached by anyone unless s.i.l (guardian of bro) or his case mngr are present.

Also advised them that we taking legal advice re equivalent of solitary confinement, not even a Carer in room whilst eats.

I AM BACK!!!

((((hugs to you all, your support, pms etc helped me come back much faster than usual.)))) xxx

They've been ignoring his request for wife to be present, 2 of them at a time going blah, blah in his face. My word for it ... BULLYING

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief

♫≈♥≈♫miss chief Report 13 May 2008 23:14

Glad to see it mate....go get em.xxxxx

MR_MAGOO

MR_MAGOO Report 13 May 2008 23:29

SS ...........((((((( HUGS )))))) XXXX
***************************************

Every one on this site is with you.

Malcolm XXXX

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 13 May 2008 23:31

Malcs, ms, everyone, my sis-in-law (read her some of your wonderfully supportive comments) just want to say a:

..................A HUGE THANK U! .............

XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

GI YID

GI YID Report 14 May 2008 06:15

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))


Glynisxxx

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 14 May 2008 06:45

I've put this on my update thread too, want you all to know how I feel ((((hugs))))

To all my friends
On GR
I need to tell you
That you are
Some of the sweetest kindest people I've ever met
Thank you so much for allowing me
To learn a lesson
That although I've always protected my family
Not used to having others care
I now know that I can share,
For you are all there
To hold my hand,
Support, advise, offer love and comfort
You have been just so been there for me,
You've touched my heart.
I shall never ever forget
The day I asked for help
The day I received it.

Thank you.

xxx

Always, always there for you too; someone somewhere is always 'worse' off. If anybody needs me, I'm always here for you.

xxx Shani xxx

GI YID

GI YID Report 14 May 2008 06:52

Sweetheart, you're a star...............


(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))


Glynisxxx

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 14 May 2008 06:54

Blushes, thnk u GI. x

jgee

jgee Report 14 May 2008 07:02

morning ss, how are you this morning, hear for you anytime take it easy hun

big hug for you and bro xxxx

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe

ShimmsRedRoseAndMistletoe Report 14 May 2008 07:49

This has always been my song for me bro, particularly relevant now
"He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother"

The road is long, with many a winding turn
That leads us to who knows where, who knows where
But I'm strong, strong enough to carry him
He ain't heavy - he's my brother

So on we go, his welfare is my concern
No burden is he to bare, we'll get there

For I know he would not encumber me
He ain't heavy - he's my brother

Only this time, there are others there for me, us, him. x

If I'm laden at all, I'm laden with sadness
That everyone's heart isn't filled with gladness of love for one another
It's a long long road from which there is no return
While we're on our way to there, why not share
And the load, it doesn't weigh me down at all
He ain't heavy - he's my brother
He ain't heavy - he's my brother, he's my brother, he's my brother