Genealogy Chat

Hi Sammy, ditto to what Kathleen just said and I hope he gets a good response from his mum sending best wishes tomorrow. Julie xxx

Hi Sammy, I haven't added to this thread before but have watched it with interest. Hope everything goes well for him tomorrow, and tell him not to take no for an answer if someone else answers the door. He can always say he will wait patiently outside for as long as it takes (even if he can't really do this). Perhaps they will see how serious he is about a meeting. My best wishes go with him for a happy outcome. Kath. x

Hi Sammy, Sending all best wishes for your BIL tomorrow. I really hope all goes as well as he would want. It's a very brave thing to do. Linda x

Hi Sammy, I will be keeping everything crossed for your BIL for tomorrow and hope everything turns out well. Heather

Hi everyone :) My BIL scared to death bless him, but he's still going. I admire him so much for doing this, it's almost a 4hr drive from here, and the 4hr drive back will be even worse if she wont speak to him, but it's got to be done. I really hope the journey is worth it, I mean I hope she's home... I hope she answers the door... I pray she doesn't slam it in his face... We'll have to wait & see I'll let you know anything as soon as I I find out Sam

Just to add my good wishes to the pile already there! Christine

Hi sammy Have been following this thread from the start...feel as if I know your BIL after all these weeks ( I think we all feel like that!!) have been sitting here hoping that he would take the step of visiting her in person. Shall have my fingers crossed on wednesday and will send him all my positive thoughts. Hope it turns out the way that he want's it to or at least so that he can have some closure on this. Justine x

Sam I've not posted on this thread before either, but send you all very best wishes for a positive outcome on Wednesday. Will be thinking of you then. Helen

Thanks everyone, lovely to hear from you all, I've got everything crossed for him too :) Sam

Sammy what can I say that already has'nt been said! A very sad experience for all involved, especially BIL. Hope everything turns out as he wishes it to be. Im sure there will be a light at the end of the tunnel, even if this process means turning the experience into a positive, interms of the inner strength he obviously has and displays! Very best wishes to you all Lib

I too have followed your thread from the beginning but not added. Good luck to your BIL -can't wait to hear the outcome. Don't ever think peolpe see the thread and think 'not that again'. If they're not interested, they won't read it! There are loads of us out there who are very interested and concerned. Bev

Brilliant news--I don't know how he's been so patient. If he's anything like me when I met my brother last year for the first time he'll need some Rescue Remedy with him !! or something stronger !! Longing to hear the outcome. All the best to him.

Sammy I've just found this thread, I was glued. I can't begin to imagine how your poor BiL must be feeling, I shall be thinking of you, your BiL and your sister on 3rd August........ Best wishes to all Teri x

Hi There was me thinking I was the only one who had followed this thread but never added but there's loads of us :-) Wishing your BIL & the rest of his supporters in your family loads of luck ,happiness & strength for Wednesday. Penny

Hi Sammy Have followed from the start but not added as yet. I wish BIL all the luck in the world for Wednesday. Will be thinking of all of you. Has your BIL any ideas on how to approach or what to say first? Either way, I hope it turns out well. I would at the very least hope that if she doesnt want to see him, that he hears it from her in person. But im sure if your BIL is polite and friendly (as im sure he is), then I dont see the harm in approaching. Im quite sure she is just scared of making the first move in case it is confrontational. Good Luck and everything crossed for a happy outcome. Vikki xx

Hi Sammy, I have been following your thread since the beginning. My thoughts will be with BIL on Wednesdayand hope everything turns out well for him. Kay

Hi Sammy, I too have been following this from the start. I really do hope everything goes alright next wednesday. Fingers crossed all will go okay, will be thinking of them. Gloria x

Hi Sammi I have been following this thread from the start and wish your BIL all the very best of luck for next Wednesday. Maxine

Hi Sammy, This is a good positive step & I will be sending positive thoughts for your sister & BiL from now til you give us the good news that everything went well Vivienne

I'll be sending him all these good wishes, you can be sure of that :) Ann!! You cant go on holiday... You just cant!!! Just kidding :)