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I believe I did, if you're referring to the marriages in the 1970s.

I found 3 children names, and i think I know the person you're referring to.

I will try and send them a message.

Has the message been opened?

Have you found the marriages I mentioned?

One of them produced three children

The son is on the ER to 2017 - he also has a tree on GR
One daughter on ER in 2002 only


One child from the other marriage

Yeah I understand that, but to I hope she at least got the message. I will go down other avenues to try and find living relatives, thank you very much for your help.

I'm afraid you need patience when waiting for replies to messages.
Sometimes it takes weeks or months for someone to decide to reply.
Some don't reply at all, for many possible reasons.

That's assuming Sylvia receives the message in the first place. If she's changed her email address since registering, and hasn't told GR, she won't receive their message.

There's no way to tell how long ago Sylvia added those names to her tree, nor how long it is since she last logged on to GR.

The names I have searched for on here all seem to be listed in a family tree by Sylvia, she potentially could be one of my mother sisters, I've sent a message but no reply yet.

The 1958 Peterboro birth is a listed tree member by ===Sylvia

The membership number is old one.but may still be valid?

Thank you very much, I didn't know that Alfred or Sylvia had siblings.

Alfred's father's name according to his birth certificate is Fredrick Wilde, his mother's name was Elizabeth Rosina Spong.

Births Dec 1958 (>99%)
WILDE Antonio HONEY Peterboro' 3b 1006 ADOPTED and name changed

Births Jun 1955 (>99%)
WILDE David R K HONEY Wycombe 6a 626
Deaths Sep 1955 (>99%)
WILDE David R K 0 Wycombe 6a 330

Two of the sisters appear to have married in 1970

WILDE, ALFRED LEO SPONG
GRO Reference: 1916 D Quarter in WOOLWICH Volume 01D Page 2001


WILDE, ETHEL ELIZABETH ROSINA SPONG
GRO Reference: 1914 S Quarter in WOOLWICH Volume 01D Page 2457

Name: Ethel Elizabeth R Wilde
Death Age: 82
Birth Date: 26 Sep 1914
Registration Date: Feb 1997
Registration District: South east Hampshire
Inferred County: Hampshire
Register Number: H44
District and Subdistrict: 5013
Entry Number: 174


Name: Ethel E R Wilde
Gender: Female
Marital Status: Single
Birth Date: 26 Sep 1914
Residence Date: 1939
Address: H. M. Prison. Holloway N. 7
Residence Place: Islington, London, England
Occupation: Saleswoman Retail
Line Number: 17
Schedule Number: 1
Sub Schedule Number: 68
OVSPI: Inmate
Enumeration District: ALBT
Borough: Islington
Registration district: 10/1

Cannot see a Wilde/Spong marriage

HONEY, EVELYN PEGGY SEXTON
GRO Reference: 1925 S Quarter in WHITCHURCH Volume 02C Page 386

Deaths Dec 1929 (>99%)
Honey Evelyn P 4 Newbury 2c 283

HONEY, MONSIR JAMES WILLIAM SEXTON
GRO Reference: 1929 J Quarter in NEWBURY Volume 02C Page 441 Occasional Copy: A

Sylvia had a sister


HONEY, EMILY FLORENCE SEXTON
GRO Reference: 1923 J Quarter in KINGSCLERE Volume 02C Page 466

Ancestry suggests this is her death

Name: Emily Florence Smith
Birth Date: 2 Mar 1923
Death Date: 14 Oct 1990
Death Place: Grange, Charles Sturt City, South Australia, Australia
Cemetery: Enfield Memorial Park
Burial or Cremation Place: Clearview, Port Adelaide Enfield City, South Australia, Australia
Spouse: John Smith

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Marriages Jun 1944 (>99%)
HONEY James D Wooders Southampton 2c 5
WOODERS Emily Honey Southampton 2c 5

Name: James Daniel Honey
Death Date: 27 Dec 1951
Death Place: Nottinghamshire, Nottingham, England
Probate Date: 19 May 1952
Probate Registry: Nottingham, England
Probate to widow, Emily

HONEY, JAMES DANIEL (MMN) GRISH
GRO Reference: 1900 M Quarter in KINGSCLERE Volume 02C Page 249

Births Jun 1944 (>99%)
Wilde Brian A L Sexton Wokingham 2c 852

Wilde
Brian Alfred L
1944
1995
England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
Manchester, Lancashire, England

1921

James
Honey
1900
Ashmansworth, Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire
Lilian May
Honey
1899
Ashmansworth, Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire
Sylvia
Honey
1921
Ashmansworth, Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire

Plus.............................................

Albert
Occomore
1881
Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire
Daisy
Occomore
1886
Andover, Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire
Doris
Occomore
1917
Andover, Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire
Douglas
Occomore
1919
Hampshire, England
Baughurst, Ashmansworth
Kingsclere
Hampshire

Name: Sylvia E Honey
Gender: Female
Marital Status: Single
Birth Date: 22 Feb 1921
Residence Date: 1939
Address: Wayside Silver Street Hordle
Residence Place: Lymington, Hampshire, England
Occupation: Domestic in Training
Line Number: 7
Schedule Number: 26
Sub Schedule Number: 5
Enumeration District: EDSI
Borough: Lymington



Name: Alfred L Wilde
Gender: Male
Marital Status: Single
Birth Date: 25 Jul 1916
Residence Date: 1939
Address: Tatchbury Mount M H
Residence Place: New Forest, Hampshire, England
Occupation: Nil
Line Number: 1
Schedule Number: 15
Sub Schedule Number: 108
OVSPI: Patient
Enumeration District: EEON
Borough: New Forest


Name: Alfred Leo Wilde
Register Type: Burial
Death Date: 1 Sep 1998
Burial or Cremation Date: 11 Sep 1998
Burial or Cremation Place: Kensington and Chelsea, London, England


Name: Alfred Leo Wilde
Residence Date: 1957
Street Address: 2 Peacock Cot. Easthampstead Park
Residence Place: Berkshire, England
Parliamentary Division: Wokingham
Also there: Sylvia Lilian

The woman who married James D Honey was Lilian MAY Sexton.

Thank you, I've been wondering where the name sexton came into it but couldn't confirm it and now have her parents names.

As far as I'm aware Sylvia used multiple names and got married before getting divorced (bigamous marriage). I can't find her death record at all because of this.

There are 7 Wilde/Honey births on record

Sylvia Lilian Eleanor Honey was the daughter of James D Honey and Lilian M Sexton

The family history is very complicated as grandparents weren't honest and gave incorrect information. I'm trying to find living relatives.

There were 5 other children with the name Wilde, which I found.

I'll keep digging and see what I can find. Thank you both for your help.