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Tom John Gray born 1874c Lincolnshire

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greyghost

greyghost Report 12 Apr 2019 11:14

1911 census says John and Mary Ann have been married 12 years. 4 children born but one has died leaving 3 still alive.

The marriage you have posted is for 1893 which was 17 years prior to that census.

Would they have been that far out in the years?

Jane

Jane Report 12 Apr 2019 10:40

I am trying to find out who he married in 1893. I have put all the information I have on him on here. The marriage I have added is to a Mary Matthews.. However if you look on the gro site to check the maiden name of the children's mother she comes up as Holmes. I can't find a marriage between a Gray and a Holmes.

Tom could also be known as John Tom as shown on the 1891 census
His birth cert shows his name as Tom JOhn.
He was born June 1874 quarter. 29/05/1874 WINT.24 364 name tom

1881

Name: Tom Gray
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1881
Event Place: Roxby Cum Risby, Lincolnshire, England
Registration District: Glanford Brigg
Gender: Male
Age: 6
Marital Status (Original): Single
Occupation: Scholar
Relationship to Head of Household: Son
Birth Year (Estimated): 1875
Birthplace: Roxby, Lincolnshire, England
Page Number: 9
Registration Number: RG11
Piece/Folio: 3286/75
Affiliate Record Type: Household
Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
James Gray Head Male 41 Hatfield Woodhouse, Yorkshire, England
Ann E Gray Wife Female 41 Bonby, Lincolnshire, England
Emily Gray Daughter Female 11 Roxby, Lincolnshire, England
Tom Gray Son Male 6 Roxby, Lincolnshire, England
Arthur Gray Son Male 2 Winterton, Lincolnshire, England

1891

John F Grey
England and Wales Census, 1891
Name: John F Grey
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1891
County: Yorkshire, Yorkshire (West Riding)
Parish: Belton
Ecclesiastical Parish: BELTON
Registration District: Thorne
Residence Note: Mosswood Grange
Gender: Male
Age: 16
Marital Status: Single
Occupation: Farm Servant
Relationship to Head of Household: Son
Birth Year (Estimated): 1875
Birthplace: Lincolnshire, England
Page Number: 2
Registration Number: RG12
Piece/Folio: 3868/ 72
Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
James Grey Head Male 50 Yorkshire, England
Anne E Grey Wife Female 50 Lincolnshire, England
John F Grey Son Male 16 Lincolnshire, England
Arthur W Grey Son Male 12 Lincolnshire, England
Thomas Grey Father Male 78 Lincolnshire, England
William Wright Servant Male 19 Yorkshire, England
George Oxtoby Servant Male 17 Yorkshire, England
John Gleadle Servant Male 15 Lincolnshire, England
Emma Briggs Servant Female 13 Lincolnshire, England

1901

Name: John T Gray
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 31 Mar 1901
Event Place: Peterborough Within, Northamptonshire, England
County: Northamptonshire
Civil Parish: Peterborough Within
Ecclesiastical Parish: Peterborough St Mark
Sub-District: Peterborough
Registration District: Peterborough
Residence Note: Walpole Street
Gender: Male
Age: 25
Occupation: BRICKLAYER
Relationship to Head of Household: Head
Birth Year (Estimated): 1876
Birthplace: Gedney, Lincolnshire
Schedule Type: 29
Page Number: 4
Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
John T Gray Head Male 25 Gedney, Lincolnshire
Mary A Gray Wife Female 23 Eye, Northamptonshire
Reginald T Gray Son Male 0 Peterborough


Marriage

County Lincolnshire
Place Crowle
Church name St Oswald
Register type Unspecified
Register entry number 328
Marriage date 18 Sep 1893
Groom forename Tom
Groom surname GRAY
Groom age 21
Groom condition Bachelor
Groom abode Crowle
Groom occupation Labourer
Bride forename Mary
Bride surname MATTHEWS
Bride age 24
Bride condition Spinster
Bride abode Crowle
Bride occupation Domestic servant
Groom father forename James
Groom father surname GRAY
Groom father occupation Farm bailiff
Bride father forename William
Bride father surname MATTHEWS
Bride father occupation Flax worker
Witness1 forename William
Witness1 surname MATTHEWS
Witness2 forename Ruth Ann
Witness2 surname MATTHEWS

1911

Name: John Tom Gray
Event Type: Census
Event Date: 1911
Event Place: Scunthorpe, Scunthorpe, Lincolnshire, England
County: Lincolnshire
Parish: Scunthorpe
Sub-District: Winterton
Registration District: Glanford Brigg
Gender: Male
Age: 35
Marital Status (Original): MARRIED
Occupation: BRICKLAYER
Birth Year (Estimated): 1876
Birthplace: Gedney, Lincolnshire
Relationship to Head of Household: Head
Line: 1
Page: 1
Years of Marriage: 12
Household Role Sex Age Birthplace
John Tom Gray Head Male 35 Gedney, Lincolnshire
Mary Ann Gray Wife Female 31 Eye, Northamptonshire
Reginald Tom Gray Son Male 10 Petersborough, Northamptonshire
Iris Winifred Gray Daughter Female 3 Scunthorpe, Lincolnshire
Evelyn Emma Gray Daughter Female 2 Scunthorpe, Lincolnshire

Can anyone help me solve this problem please.

Thank you