I've been looking into the family in 1851 census and I don't think that Edward's wife died. This is my theory, and of course it is only that.
Birth of a first child:- MAY, MARY ANN ELIZABETH - Order GRO Reference: 1838 S Quarter in BRIGHTHELMSTON Volume 07 Page 225 (no mmn)
Baptism shows parents were:- Name Mary Ann Elizabeth May Gender Female Christening Date 23 Sep 1838 Christening Date (Original) 23 SEP 1838 Christening Place St Nicholas, Brighton, Sussex, England Father's Name Edward May Mother's Name Mary Ann
The couple married:- Marriages Sep 1838 (>99%) GILLAM Mary Ann Brighton 7 310 MAY Edward Brighton 7 310
1841 The couple are living with Edward's mother, with their daughter:-
Name: Edward Mory [Edward May] Age: 20 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1821 Gender: Male Where born: Sussex, England Civil Parish: Brighthelmstone Hundred: Brighthelmstone County/Island: Sussex Country: England Street address: Registration district: Brighthelmstone Sub-registration district: Palace Neighbors: View others on page Piece: 1122 Book: 4 Folio: 38 Page Number: 27 Household Members: Name Age Barbary Mory 60 **** Edward Mory 20 **** Mary Mory 20 William Mory 15 **** Mary Mory 2 Ann Mory 7 Charlott Marsh 8
As already posted, in 1851 Edward is noted as widow but I believe that Mary Ann didn't die but went on to marry someone else:-
Name: Mary Ann May [Mary Ann Gillam] Gender: Female Marriage Date: 31 Aug 1845 Marriage Place: Saint Nicholas,Brighton,Sussex,England Father: Gabriel Gillam Spouse: Samuel Bashford FHL Film Number: 1067119
the couple in 1851 are with Mary Ann's dughter Mary Ann
Name: Mary A Bashford Age: 33 Estimated Birth Year: abt 1818 Relation: Wife Spouse's Name: Samuel Bashford Gender: Female Where born: Brighton, Sussex, England Civil Parish: Lancing Phillimore Ecclesiastical Parish Maps: View related Ecclesiastical Parish County/Island: Sussex Country: England Street address: View image Registration district: Worthing Sub-registration district: Broadwater ED, institution, or vessel: 1a Neighbors: View others on page Household schedule number: 64 Piece: 1651 Folio: 13 Page Number: 19 Household Members: Name Age Samuel Bashford 25 Mary A Bashford 33 Samuel G Bashford 5 Jane G Bashford 5 Henry G Bashford 10 Mo **** Mary Anne May 12 ****
Births for children in this census show mmn Gillam:- BASHFORD, SAMUEL GABRIEL GILLAM Order GRO Reference: 1845 D Quarter in BRIGHTHELMSTON Volume 07 Page 267 BASHFORD, JANE GILLAM Order GRO Reference: 1848 M Quarter in STEYNING UNION Volume 07 Page 480 Name: Henry Gilham Bashford Gender: Male Birth Date: 11 May 1850 Baptism Date: 7 Jul 1850 Baptism Place: Lancing,Sussex,England Father: Samuel Bashford Mother: Mary Ann Gilham
As the youngest child was born in 1845 then the children in the May household in 1851 could not be Edward's wife Mary Ann's children, hence their mother was someone else with the surname Dixon. ...............................................................
Edward went on to marry someone else in 1852
Marriages Jun 1852 (>99%) MAY Edward Brighton 2b 299 Tourle Maria Brighton 2b 299
1861
Name: Edward May Age: 43 Estimated Birth Year: 1818 Relation: Head Spouse's Name: Maria May Gender: Male Where born: Brighton, Sussex, England Civil Parish: Brighton County/Island: Sussex Country: England Street address: Registration district: Brighton Sub-registration district: The Palace ED, institution, or vessel: 6 Neighbors: View others on page Household schedule number: 188 Piece: 599 Folio: 150 Page Number: 29 Household Members: Name Age Edward May 43 Maria May 39 born: Falmer, Sussex Edward May 14 Maria May 11 born: London, Middlesex, Thomas May 7 Mary A May 2 Adam May 11/12 ................................................
Maria had also been married before Marriages Jun 1846 Juniper Maria Lambeth 4 328 Tourle Thomas Lambeth 4 328
as the children in 1861 census have mmn Juniper:- TOURLE, MARIA JUMPER Order GRO Reference: 1849 D Quarter in SAINT GEORGE THE MARTYR SOUTHWARK Volume 04 Page 467
MAY, THOMAS JUNIPER Order GRO Reference: 1853 J Quarter in BRIGHTHELMSTON Volume 02B Page 207
MAY, MARY ANN JUNIPER Order GRO Reference: 1858 J Quarter in BRIGHTON Volume 02B Page 199
MAY, ADAM JUNIPER Order GRO Reference: 1860 J Quarter in BRIGHTON Volume 02B Page 201 ..........................................
To find out the name of the mystery Dixon lady you would have to buy a copy of the birth cirtificate of one of the children in 1851 census.
It could be that John was not born with the name May, at all. Maybe his mother was Irish, from Dublin, and she had John whilst still living there and then came over to England and met Edward May and went on to have two children with him and Edward brought John up as his own child?
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i think you need this marriage cert
What is his father's name per his marriage cert ? and occupation etc
and his address
Marriages Jun 1863 (>99%) Boxall Caroline Ann Steyning 2b 422 May John Steyning 2b 422
i can't find him 1861
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Baptism for Edward born 1847 shows mother as Mary Ann:-
Name: Edward May Gender: Male Christening Date: 25 Apr 1847 Christening Place: Brighton, Sussex, England Phillimore Ecclesiastical Parish Map: View this parish Father: Edward May Mother: Mary Ann May
as there was another child born in 1848 then this could be a possible death for the mother? MAY, MARY ANN 28 Order GRO Reference: 1850 S Quarter in BRIGHTHELMSTON Volume 07 Page 214 (makes dob 1822)
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Good morning all, re.John May b.1841 in Dublin. " It is said that John came from Ireland, that he was one of three brothers who came to England during the Irish potato famine" This is from the info that I was given last week but, his parents Edward & Mary Ann Gillians were born & living in Brighton. That's why I was trying to find a birth cert. of John as that might give me info to say who his parents were if Edward & Mary was wrong. Many thanks for all your time & interest
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I had looked at Mary Ann Gillam, but had discounted her because her husband Edward was a boat builder in 1841.
He obviously had a major change of occupation to a tailor by 1851. I thought at first that perhaps it actually said "sailor" in 1851, but later censuses confirm "tailor".
A pity we couldn't have found any record of John's birth.
Perhaps boat building was the reason they went to Dublin - seems more likely than tailoring.
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Thank,s ArgyllGran, as you say, a pity I can't find a birth cert. as that would answer why he born in Dublin, or if he was born in Dublin. .
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