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Nooo I've got it. Eldest son of A.J. and Harriet... Alfred J.and HIS wife Nellie.

Other son's are deceased as the Nephew was sole executor. Alfred J Junior.

So back to Alec/Alex :)

Flip maybe he's the oldest remaining son ? !

Marriage Record Name Alfred James Barber
Year of Marriage 1863
Quarter of Marriage Jul-Aug-Sep
Registration District Ipswich
Registration County Suffolk
Spouse's Surname Only available for records after 1912
Volume Number 4A
Volume Page 325



Marriage Record Name Harriet Louisa Wells
Year of Marriage 1863
Quarter of Marriage Jul-Aug-Sep
Registration District Ipswich
Registration County Suffolk
Spouse's Surname Only available for records after 1912
Volume Number 4A
Volume Page 825

I think , Alfred J is indeed James A. 1843.

Problem with this Alfred, if the article is correct and he was the oldest son surely Alexander would be younger, so don't think he could be a soldier & freeman of Ipswich in 1857 - at most he would only have been 14.

Maybe this Alfred is the wrong person?

here is harriet wells in 1851 so wonder if he married the daughter


1851 Census Household RecordHousehold Information
Address Part Of Wherstead Road
Parish St Peter
District Ipswich, St Matthew
Administrative County Suffolk

Householder 1
Name Harriet Wells
Age 41
Estimated Year of Birth 1810
Relationship to Head of Household Head
Occupation School Mistress
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 2
Name Harriet L Wells
Age 11
Estimated Year of Birth 1840
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Occupation Juvenile
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 3
Name John B Ball
Age 7
Estimated Year of Birth 1844
Relationship to Head of Household Scholar
Occupation Juvenile
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Marriages Jun 1873 (>99%)
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Barber Alfred James Ipswich 4a 926
Clarke Eleanor Mary Ipswich 4a 926
SENTON Caroline Ipswich 4a 926
WEBSTER Joseph James Ipswich 4a 926

My mother was called Eleanor and was always known as Nelly!

1911 Census Household RecordHousehold information
Address 36 Hornsey Lane Upper Holloway N
Parish Islington
Town Upper Holloway N
Type of Building Private House
Number of Rooms Dwelling House 13 Rooms
Inhabited Y
Reference RG14PN800 RG78PN28 RD10 SD2 ED1 SN44
Administrative County London
Registration District Islington
Registration Sub District Upper Holloway
Enumeration District 1

Householder 1
Name Alfred James Barber
Relationship to Head of Household Head
Condition / Years Married Maried
Gender M
Age 68
Estimated Year of Birth 1843
Occupation Secretary Railway Company
Employed Y
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Toronto Canada Resident

Householder 2
Name Eleanor Mary Barber
Relationship to Head of Household Wife
Condition / Years Married Married / 37 Years
Total Children Born Alive 8
Children Still Living 7
Children Who Have Died 1
Gender F
Age 63
Estimated Year of Birth 1848
Employed N
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Ipswick Suffolk

Householder 3
Name Harry Hutchinson Barber
Relationship to Head of Household Son
Condition / Years Married Married
Gender M
Age 31
Estimated Year of Birth 1880
Occupation Clerk Railway Company
Employed Y
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Ipswich Suffolk

Householder 4
Name Lily Louisa Eida Barber
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter In Law
Condition / Years Married Married
Gender F
Age 28
Estimated Year of Birth 1883
Employed N
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Tufnell Park Islington London

Householder 5
Name Adela Grace Barber
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Condition / Years Married Single
Gender F
Age 34
Estimated Year of Birth 1877
Employed N
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Ipswich Suffolk

Householder 6
Name Maud Eveleen Barber
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Condition / Years Married Single
Gender F
Age 28
Estimated Year of Birth 1883
Employed N
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Stamford Hill Middlesex

Householder 7
Name Minnie Charlotte Erdwein
Relationship to Head of Household Servant
Condition / Years Married Single
Gender F
Age 18
Estimated Year of Birth 1893
Occupation Housemaid Domestic
Employed Y
Working at Home N
Place of Birth Regents Park London

1901 Census Household RecordHousehold information
Address Castlemere
Civil Parish Islington
Rural District
Town or Village or Hamlet
Ecclesiastical Parish St Andrew
Parliamentary Borough or Division N Islington
County Borough, Municipal Borough or Urban District Islington
Administrative County London

Householder 1
Name Adela G Barber
Relation to Head of Family Daughter
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 24
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation
Employment Status
Where Born Suffolk Ipswich
Language
Infirmity

Householder 2
Name Agnes M Barber
Relation to Head of Family Servant
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 20
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation
Employment Status
Where Born Suffolk Ipswich
Language
Infirmity

Householder 3
Name Alfred Barber
Relation to Head of Family Head
Condition as to Marriage Married
Age Last Birthday 58
Sex Male
Profession or Occupation Secty Railway Confiey
Employment Status
Where Born Canada
Language
Infirmity

Householder 4
Name Beatrice M Barber
Relation to Head of Family Daughter
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 17
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation
Employment Status
Where Born London Stewerfordhill
Language
Infirmity

Householder 5
Name Eleanor M Barber
Relation to Head of Family Wife
Condition as to Marriage Married
Age Last Birthday 53
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation
Employment Status
Where Born Suffolk Ipswich
Language
Infirmity

Householder 6
Name Gertrude M Barber
Relation to Head of Family Daughter
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 23
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation
Employment Status
Where Born Suffolk Ipswich
Language
Infirmity

Householder 7
Name Harry H Barber
Relation to Head of Family Son
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 22
Sex Male
Profession or Occupation Coustalecbury
Employment Status
Where Born Suffolk Ipswich
Language
Infirmity

Householder 8
Name Maud E Barber
Relation to Head of Family Daughter
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 18
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation
Employment Status
Where Born Suffolk Ipswich
Language
Infirmity

Householder 9
Name Elizabeth A Pavelin
Relation to Head of Family Servant
Condition as to Marriage Single
Age Last Birthday 22
Sex Female
Profession or Occupation Cook Domestic
Employment Status
Where Born London Islington
Language
Infirmity

1891 Census Household RecordHousehold Information
Address Castlemere, Hornsey Lane
Parish Islington
District Islington, Upper Holloway
Administrative County London

Householder 1
Name Alfred J Barber
Age 48
Estimated Year of Birth 1843
Relationship to Head of Household Head
Occupation Secretary Of Public Cos
Birth Place Toronto, Canada
Birth County

Householder 2
Name Eleanor M Barber
Age 43
Estimated Year of Birth 1848
Relationship to Head of Household Wife
Occupation
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk
Householder 3

Name Alfred B Barber
Age 17
Estimated Year of Birth 1874
Relationship to Head of Household Son
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 4
Name Hugh S Barber
Age 16
Estimated Year of Birth 1875
Relationship to Head of Household Son
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 5
Name Adela G Barber
Age 14
Estimated Year of Birth 1877
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 6
Name Gertrude M Barber
Age 13
Estimated Year of Birth 1878
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 7
Name Harry H Barber
Age 12
Estimated Year of Birth 1879
Relationship to Head of Household Son
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk

Householder 8
Name Agnes M E Barber
Age 10
Estimated Year of Birth 1881
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Ipswich
Birth County Suffolk
Householder 9

Name Maud E Barber
Age 8
Estimated Year of Birth 1883
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Stamford Hill
Birth County London

Householder 10
Name Beatrice M Barber
Age 7
Estimated Year of Birth 1884
Relationship to Head of Household Daughter
Occupation Scholar
Birth Place Stoke Newington
Birth County London

Householder 11
Name Emma M Sinclair
Age 22
Estimated Year of Birth 1869
Relationship to Head of Household Servant
Occupation General Servant
Birth Place
Birth County London

Householder 12
Name Ellen Haber
Age 15
Estimated Year of Birth 1876
Relationship to Head of Household Servant
Occupation General Servant
Birth Place
Birth County London

the 1871 i gave for alfred j looks like he is a widower to me
PP

The news article found by Quoy states Alfred is the oldest son, but it only mentions a floral tribute from him and wife Nellie. the article states Alec/x and Mrs A J were in the funeral carriage - they were the only family mentioned as attending the funeral.

Ok , so we have TWO possible older boys... Alec or Alex. and Alfred J. Possibly born in Canada.

Alexander Crickett was with the 83 reg. of foot. joined in 1825, they were known to be stationed in Canada from 1834. by 1843 we know they're back in this country by births of subsequent children. I have had someone contact me who claims another daughter ,
Helen Maria 1842 Canada was visiting an uncle @1851 census. Could she have been a twin? with Alfred J ? But then where was he in 1851... hmmm.

I can't make out his marital status, but think this is his marriage (Harriet Louisa was with mother on 1861 census)

Marriages Sep 1863 (>99%)
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ADCOCK James Ipswich 4a 825
BARBER Alfred James Ipswich 4a 825
Scarlett Victoria Matilda Ipswich 4a 825
WELLS Harriet Louisa Ipswich 4a 825

I wonder if he was known as James A - the year of birth same as earlier census?

Looks like he could have been widow:

Deaths Dec 1864 (>99%)
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Barber Harriett Louisa Ipswich 4a 178

Oh my! You guys have been busy whilst I slept!

Thank you so much!
I'll have a re read and digest this info. But it certainly seems there was indeed another son, and my 3rd Great Grandfather was well respected ? How nice :-D

This is the 1871 census found by pollypocket.
Can someone else look at the census and read his marital status?
I cannot tell if it says married or widowed, but there is no obvious wife in the household?

This seems to be a small school, where the mother in law and unmarried Louisa Rawe are the School Mistresses. All others are pupils and two servants


1871 England Census about Alfred J Barber
Name: Alfred J Barber
Age: 29
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1842
Relation: Son-in-law
Gender: Male
Where born: Cuanda W, Toronta
Civil parish: Ipswich St Margaret
Ecclesiastical parish: Norwich
Town: Ipswich
County/Island: Suffolk
Country: England
Registration district: Ipswich
Sub-registration district: St Margaret
ED, institution, or vessel: 6
Household schedule number: 185
Piece: 1755
Folio: 110
Page Number: 35
Household Members:
Name Age
Harriet Wells 59
Alfred J Barber 29
Louisa Rawe 24
Madolin Walsingham 17
Betsey Walsingham 15
Julia Smith 16
Margt A Buckels 13
Charlotte C Sadler 7
Florence Harpham 10
Emily J Harpham 9
Fanny J Gitby 13
Maud E Greeves 10
Florence M Greeves 8
Emma Scowen 21
Elizabeth Scowen 12

Perhaps the 1871 census found by Sylvia IS the missing son, which means he died between 1871 and 1888

possible

1871 Census RecordPersonal Information
Name Alfred J Barber
Age 29
Estimated Year of Birth 1842
Relationship to Head of Household Son-In-Law
Occupation
Address Carr Street
District Ipswich, St Margaret
Parish St Margaret
Administrative County Suffolk
Birth Place Canada
Birth County Canada
Reference Information
Folio 110
Page 35
Piece 1755

Surely the 1853 death is the Henry G Barber on the 1851 census with Alexander & Helen?

Henry G Barber
Age: 1
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1850
Relation: Son
Father's Name: Alexander Barber
Mother's Name: Hellen Barber
Gender: M (Male)
Where born: Ireland

Civil parish: Dover Castle
County/Island: Kent
Country: England

Street Address:

Occupation:

Condition as to marriage:

Disability: View image

Registration district: Dover
Sub-registration district: St James
ED, institution, or vessel: 9d
Neighbors: View others on page
Household schedule number: 10
Piece: 1632
Folio: 210
Page Number: 3
Household Members: Name Age
Alexander Barber 43
Hellen Barber 42
Amelia Barber 18
Eliza J Barber 16
Sarah Barber 11
James A Barber 8
Benjamin Barber 5
Susannah Barber 3
Henry G Barber 1
Henry Macarthny 20

Is this the Alex Barber whose son died in 1853?????


1871 Census

Name: Alex Barber
Age: 34
Estimated Birth Year: abt 1837
Relation: Head
Spouse's Name: Sarah Barber
Gender: Male
Where born: Ipswich, Suffolk, England
Civil parish: St Botolph
County/Island: Essex
Country: England
Registration district: Colchester
Sub-registration district: Colchester First Ward
ED, institution, or vessel: The Camp

Alex Barber 34
Sarah Barber 26 b.ca 1845, Canterbury, Kent



no no .... this one is too young to have had a child in 1853!