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AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 10:47

Wadda ya mean you have their birth certificates. How do they fit into this equation. I was joking because I have an instance also of cross marriages between families who knew each other.

Is there something you are not telling!!

Re Mary Hart. You stated she was married to William Gardiner who was your GG father. Do you have their marriage certificate. If so exactly what does it say.

How many other certificates do you have which have a bearing on this little puzzle. It makes things soooooooo much easier if I know what you know. I am quite slow at this and horribly methodical. Right now I'm also fairly bald which is a clue for you to cough up all the info you have. A balding old lady is not a pretty sight.

Tara

Tara Report 6 Mar 2010 10:37

Oh that's interesting...Will Hart and Mary Gardiner...Mary was born in 1878 and Will was born 1877...I have their birth certs..would that make them too young? In the 1911 census it says they have been married for 10 years, which could be a lie of course...I don't know for sure if Hart was her name at time of marriage...it's weird because her parents marriage is non existent too so I wonder if they went somewhere special to get hitched. Don't know if William served in the war...have no one to ask that unfortunately, I am going on info from census and certs. Oh, on William's birth cert he is down as just William, on his death cert he is down as William James...which is likely to be more accurate d'ya know?

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 10:15

Next question. Did William Gardiner serve in the British forces in WW1. If so do you know his regiment or his service number. There are lots of Service records for William Gardiner, just need to know the correct one to access.

Also do you know the date of William Gardiner's marriage to Mary Hart. Are you certain that Hart is her correct name at time of marriage.

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 10:06

A complete irrelevancy for you. Just had me thinking.
1891 Dec 5th. William Henry Hart married Mary Ann Gardiner.

Your GG mother's name was Mary Hart. I told you, I think out loud a lot.

Tara

Tara Report 6 Mar 2010 10:00

Yes, AS, I think I will invest in Alexanders birth cert, I think I may apply for a birth cert for one of Jane and James's children to find out who Jane was...not knowing is doin my head in. Mineral water maker...mmm interesting. William was a meat market porter so there's a good chance that it's the right Alexander, same occupation etc. Thanks again. Oh and I found another James Gardiner in the 1901 census, stone mason living in a Coffee house in St Lukes but it has his birth place as Guilford in 1850...which isn't right. Was everyone called James Gardiner a stone mason????

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 07:26

I think you should take a risk and buy the birth certificate. This will tell you if this is the correct Alexander, ie if James and Emma are his parents. If you go through GRO with the information March Quarter 1872 Vol 1b page 773, the cert will cost you 7 of your pounds. Up to you whether you wish to waste the money.

And that will be the case if I am wrong. I was hoping to find a baptism but that hasn't appeared.

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 07:22

1901 England Census

Name: Alexandra Gardiner (I think this is a spelling error - the person should be Alexander. The entry is in the male column with "head" against it and Sophia is listed as his wife).

Age: 29
Estimated birth year: abt 1872
Relation: Head
Spouse's name: Sophia
Gender: Male
Where born: St Luke, London, England

Civil parish: St Luke
Ecclesiastical parish: St Barnabas
County/Island: London
Country: England

Registration district: Holborn
Sub-registration district: City Road
ED, institution, or vessel: 13
Household schedule number: 255
Household Members: Name Age
Alexandra (Alexander) Gardiner 29 Sophia Gardiner 30
William Gardiner 9 Alexandra Gardiner 6
Henry Gardiner 4 Mary A Gardiner 1

Alexander' occupation is listed as Porter, Meat Markets, I think.

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 05:20

Births Mar 1872 (>99%)
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Gardiner Alexander James Holborn 1b 773



AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 6 Mar 2010 04:46

This is what you know. From London Marriages and Banns 1754-1921 from Ancestry


Name: Alexander Gardiner
Age: 20
Estimated birth year: abt 1870
Spouse Name: Sophia Emily Barrett
Spouse Age: 19
Record Type: Marriage
Event Date: 14 Dec 1890
Parish: St Thomas, Bethnal Green
County: Middlesex
Borough: Tower Hamlets
Father Name: James Gardiner
Spouse Father Name: Joseph Barrett

I agree with your puzzlement over Alexander's occupation. To me it looks like Mineral Water Maker. Which just don't make sense in 1890. I will ask the experts.

Tara

Tara Report 5 Mar 2010 10:20

Hi AS, thank you again....Alexanders marriage cert...Dec 14th 1890...Alexander James Gardiner 20 (occupation is difficult to read...municipal water something or watch maker? )address 20 Willow Walk... Father James Gardiner occupation marble polisher - marries Sophia Emily Barrett 19,marriage in St Johns Church, Bethnal Green. Father Joseph Barrett salesman.

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 5 Mar 2010 10:07

The answer to your question is yes there are quite a few instances of marriages not occurring or not being registered. However I think it is far too early to put this lack of information into that category. Please tell me exactly word for word what is on Alexander's marriage certificate including the date.

I did find an instance of James and Emmas child being baptised and the James occupation being French polisher. I dismissed it as a wood polisher, I am now wondering if it meant a stone polisher.

Tara

Tara Report 5 Mar 2010 09:11

Hi AS, I don't think they travelled to another part of the UK, my family were very much City of London based. I have managed to locate Alexander in the 1901 and 1911 census...(Williams's elder brother and James's and Emma's eldest son.) I cannot find William anywhere or weirdly a marriage for him and my GG mother Mary Hart either - I have searched high and low. So, I sent for Alexanders marriage cert (DEC 1990) which arrived yesterday and James is on there - profession marble polisher. Another strange thing...Mary...wife of William....I can find no trace of marriage record for her parents either...is this unusual...to have so many marriage records missing or marriages not taking place?

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 4 Mar 2010 20:18

Have you thought along the lines of them moving long distance. Out of England and Wales. What ties them to that particular part of the UK. Could they have gone further afield than Scotland or Ireland, perhaps USA or Australia. You have William in the 1911 census and being your GGfather you must be fairly certain of his movements, but what of the rest of the family.

We do have marriages and births for Gardiner families, just haven't put the correct ones together yet.

And of course we are placing emphasis on his occupation. What if he changed occupation, or had another occupation and then went back to being a stone mason. It is only recorded on one census.

Tara

Tara Report 4 Mar 2010 12:03

Thankyou so much AS for your investigations....nope no trace of Alexander, James or William in any other census in relation to Jane and James snr. I can find no trace of a marriage between James and Emma or weirdly James and Jane, but thanks again for all your help.

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 4 Mar 2010 11:51

I would take your theory one step further. I do not think James Gardiner married Emma Jordan. There is no evidence I can find of a marriage between them. (And that statement certainly does not mean they never married). I just can not find a marriage and believe you me I have looked. The final step in that search is to find the individual marriages and match the vol and page numbers. Will do that in the morning. And even that will probably not turn up a marriage.

James and Emma set up house. Had children. Emma either died or left and James married Jane.

Can you find James Gardiner with Alexander, William and James Jnr in a later census. (With Jane as the mother). If so what relationship does the census image give for the chn to Jane. I know it's a long shot however ........

Sorry forgot. Can not find a baptism for any of the children with father James, mother Emma, child Alexander, James or William where the father's occupation is stone polisher or mason.

**Ann**

**Ann** Report 4 Mar 2010 11:41

Frisco,

i bet that happened quite often, if wife 1 died and hubby was left holding the baby.........or several!

My great grandfather was left with 4 kids when his wife died march 1901, he married her cousin 3 months later!

Ann

Tara

Tara Report 4 Mar 2010 11:22

How about this for a theory....the only Emma Jordan I can find born in St Lukes in 1849 ish...is in the 1851 census....and she has a younger sister Jane born St Lukes...dya think James could have married them both? Am I being ridiculous now, wanting my ancestors to be more exciting than they were?

AuntySherlock

AuntySherlock Report 4 Mar 2010 11:00

Thank you. That makes things a little easier.

I am currently going through the baptisms for children born to James and Emma Gardener/Gardiner.

There are more than several. Looking in particular at Alexander, James and William. Dates of birth between 1872 and 1877 ish. What I am looking for is the occupation of the father James.

Tara

Tara Report 4 Mar 2010 10:54

Ok, thanks, here's what I know for sure. The William Gardiner born 1877 Green Arbour Court is my GG, his father James Gardiner born 1849 St Luke (source - 1881 census), Marble polisher/ Stone Mason(source - Will's birth cert ) was married (possibly not..can find no trace) to an Emma Jordan(source-Will's birth cert) I know nothing else about her.. and the 1881 census is the only record I have of them...they all disappear...until William pops up again in 1911. That's why I have convinced myself that this James Gardiner married to Jane is the right guy...am I barking up the wrong tree d'ya think?

**Ann**

**Ann** Report 4 Mar 2010 10:53

AS,

Am I right in saying there is no GARDNER.......only 2no GARDINER

Annx