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Hi Samantha,

I, too, was adopted. My birth parents were married and had a daughter who is 3 years older than me. My parents split up when my mother was pregnant with me and I was put up for adoption. I have traced my biological mother, but my biological father is proving to be elusive.

Try not to beat yourself up over this. I know how you feel, you just want some answers and know who you are.

I have found many blood relatives through this site. Have you tried finding your birth parents on this site??

I wish you luck in your search.

Sally

derek,what was the dates you had for the one in surrey,afterall my birth was in the sub district of basildon but its recorded under the district of brentwood.would the same not apply in her case.sutton is in surrey.all advice welcome and most appreciated.also derek the registered address on the cert is 14 paprills,basildon,essex.
sam

Sent you a pm.

I have only one Linda Hawkes born in surrey but not in Sutton

ok guys i have now got my birth certificate and all that we had assumed apperas to be wrong my mothers full name was LINDA ANN HAWKES and she was born in SUTTON,SURREY.I have looked back as far as 1949 which would have made her 25ish when i was born and as far4 forward as 1961 which would have made her 13ish young i know but i cannot find any names that are an exact match.Would you guys have any more luck.I m afraid there are no birth fathers details on the cert,which means that the bloke who was with her either wasen't my father or did'nt want to be named.Lets remember i could be the result of a not very nice sexual encounter so she may not even know the father.

Hi Tracey

Might have another lead, fingers crossed ;O)

Sheila

I would think we are going to be doing the GRO wait 7 days dance!!

Both myself and Derek looked on facebook for any possible family members, but there appeared to be none :-(

Tracey x

Still no news yet :O) thought of something else Samantha could try, hope she is looking into it :O)

Thanks guys for all your info,i have replied to a couple of you.Spooky that another girl had the same name as me.I found the entry you meant at the bottom with no first name.makes more sense.will apply for original birth certificate and get back to you all,cheers again guys.

sam

i hope so too! i would like to know to lol

Sent her another e.mail telling her that the best thing to do is get a copy of the org cert, does not look like she is around tonight, her e.mails are unread, so hopefully she will do this tomorrow :O)

Hi

The 1975 marriage was in the right area and I have found that couple plus two children living now in a different part of the country.

Hope Samantha gets her birth certificate and comes back here for help or to tell us the outcome.

As you say we don't want to guess the BM's name.

We may never know.

ValT

I am with Wayne here, we cannnot just guess the BM's names, there are at least 4 I have found till now.

It may also be possible that she did not marry and Samantha would be following the wrong lead again.

Samantha I have sent you the ref number, you need to get a copy of this cert and then get back to us., given that you where adopted in 1975 you maybe able to pick the cert up if you live locally :O)

i know....

i wish she would stay with the thread!!

We need to be careful here, neither the husband nor the children maybe aware of this data.

I would suggest we wait for Samantha to get her original birth cert and she comes back with the mothers full name.


Tracey x

Hi Vait

we have found one in 1975

Hi all I have searched marriages 1978-1981 and there is on one entry that matches BM initials and surname and that was in 1981 in Wandsworth.

Earlier one seems more likely given the district.

ValT

got ya

so there is possible marriage for this L A Hawkes and a family.

x

I said 33 miles apart.... i read google wrong, it 33 MINS apart.... 20 MILES!!!

Tracey x