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i am trying to find information on my sons fathers family after he abandend them as babies without a trace 13 years ago they now wish to know more about who and where they came from their father is John James Chapman born Bridgend, Mid Glamorgan, South Wales in June 1971 he was the youngest son of Shirley and the late Glyn Chapman and brother to Richard, Stephen, Susan and the late Carol. Although i can tell them about grandparents, aunts and uncles and cousins to a limit there is not much more and if anyone related to this family would be kind enough to realese further information i would be greatful the family owe the children that much after all turning your back on them without contact all these years following my divorce from their father the children did you no harm nor did i John abandend us all following his affair with nothing but debt to this day we dont know why he felt the need to do what he did i gave him 3 beautiful healthy sons and did all that was expected of a wife our sons need answers which i cannot give. My youngest son Daniel was only 3 weeks old when John walked out of his life Sam 2 years and Ben 1 year old there now 15,14,13 years old at the age of wanting answers and information i cannot give i have never bad mouthed their father or his family to the children even with good cause but would like the information for their sake and the closure they need so they can move on into adulthood not blaming themselves as i have all these years. Thank you to anyone who could help